"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it really bad?

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Is it really bad to have pauses of slilence in converations? The question is as simple as that really...
Does it give a bad impression?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i would say depends if ur person to person or ova da phone. i was just on da phone with a girl i really like and we weren't talken and i was readen this and laughin and she hung up
but person to person i would say it wouldn't hurt to stop talken for a minute or so that is just me.
 
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Originally posted by Stinky Booky
i would say depends if ur person to person or ova da phone. i was just on da phone with a girl i really like and we weren't talken and i was readen this and laughin and she hung up
but person to person i would say it wouldn't hurt to stop talken for a minute or so that is just me.
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yeah i meant person 2 person
 
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If you're a funny guy you can make them work to your advantage (Conan O'Brien, The Office, etc.) But I think over the phone they are never good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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During a silent moment, I usually ask, "What's on your mind?" Great way to restart the conversation and effectively diverts the "blame" of the silent moment away from you.
 
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