"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it possible...

stewie

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Is it possible to recover from a bad first kiss. I went out with a girl the other night and we had a great time. i already knew that she was really into me because her friends have been telling me that she really likes me.

When i went to kiss her we both went the same direction and ended up bumping into each other. The kiss was real short and felt really awkward.

I guess we just don't click sexually (if that is legitimate) because ive never had this problem before and my past girlfriends always talked about how good a kisser i was. Im pretty sure she has lost a lot of interest in me and i want to know if there is any way to bounce back from this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You'll never have to ask this question again if you make the first one a good kiss.

but I think you could recover. Of course.
 

stewie

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This started out with her persuing me and her friends telling me how attracted she was to me. Now im having to persue her and i want to get control of the situation again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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