"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it possible to never work out with a girl even though you become a prof. DJ?

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Well, I know this could be a depending question... but is it possible for any DJs who are real good with chicks to fail a chick just because they are not rich?... or is there a way to change this girl's mind?

I don't have this problem but there is this girl which i fancy alot now, and well she's dating another guy but I really don't mind at the moment. I mind that she wants to sit next to my friend all the time and it sord of makes me feel very AFC-ish. I tried thinking every way to get her to offer me a seat with her. Anyway, please answer the question...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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come on guy, 99.999999% of the people on earth are not rich and they have women!
 
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Yeah, I know that... But there are some girls who are very picky and for them it's either the rich guy or never going out with them. They can use a DJ Material but if it still does not work, is there still a chance of getting her to date you?
 
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Why would you even want a woman like this? These hos are shallow and selfish - she'll get someone to kill you and then take your money and spend her days with the chump that killed you!

Guys that go wiith gold-digging hos deserve death.
 
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Originally posted by tactic
Yeah, I know that... But there are some girls who are very picky and for them it's either the rich guy or never going out with them. They can use a DJ Material but if it still does not work, is there still a chance of getting her to date you?
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If wealth has so blinded her to your sparkling personality, would she ever really appreciate you? More importantly, would she ever be any FUN??

Don't torture yourself over one girl. Money or no, YOU are the MAN.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha... well no this chick i fancy isn't like that though... she's not those types but she's the type who would hang out with people who go to her parties and such and then pick the one she likes... but i really don't want the parties stuff yet until i make her into me... wouldn't there be possibilities?
 
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