"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it possible to lose your game?

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Max Power said:
I had the same thing happen to me when I started approaching. I noticed I felt different (the whole matrix thing) and women treated me differently. I didn't have women sarge me at the mall, however.

The thing Canadian Catnip is you can't have "success" go to your head too much. You have to keep approaching or you will lose that feeling. That's another thing I noticed.
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Reading that post, it reminded me of a thread I need to make.

Is it possible for a dude to lose his game? Sometime I wonder and believe that I lost mine. Although I still have much of the theory in my brain, it''s like it's harder to put it into motion now...somehow. I can tell another guy damn never all the advice he needs, but I can't seem to get it going myself LOL? Or am I just crazy?

What happen was that I was trying to focus on business a few years ago. I was a all work no play guy who wanted to get rich so bad. Anyway, long story short I didn't spit game as much at females because I didn't really have time for them at the time. I would spend late late nights up trying to do my business thing.

Later, I moved to a new state and got a new job. I never seemed to recover. My approach game is basically non-existent. Did I lose it?

If so, I know that in order to get it back, I need to practice and just start doing it again...and get back into that comfort zone. But the last few times I did, it just didn't go well. Actually my latest approaches have been some of the worse in my life LOL.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, you can lose it. I felt like I was making some progress a few years back, now I've lapsed into my normal self. The thing is, game comes naturally for some guys and not so for others. I think it's like a muscle, if you don't use it, it starts to go soft. Some dudes seem to be born naturally muscular and don't have to work out to have cuts, they are lucky bastards. But you are like the guy who was born skinny and must regularly workout at the gym to maintain and when you stop working out, you revert back to your prior self.
 
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use it or lose it very true........YOU GOTTA STAY SHARP AND THINGS change.....cell phones, new net dating sites, speed dating........gotta be in touch with everything.
 
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