"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is it possible to lose your game?

IPreyOnIt

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Max Power said:
I had the same thing happen to me when I started approaching. I noticed I felt different (the whole matrix thing) and women treated me differently. I didn't have women sarge me at the mall, however.

The thing Canadian Catnip is you can't have "success" go to your head too much. You have to keep approaching or you will lose that feeling. That's another thing I noticed.
Reading that post, it reminded me of a thread I need to make.

Is it possible for a dude to lose his game? Sometime I wonder and believe that I lost mine. Although I still have much of the theory in my brain, it''s like it's harder to put it into motion now...somehow. I can tell another guy damn never all the advice he needs, but I can't seem to get it going myself LOL? Or am I just crazy?

What happen was that I was trying to focus on business a few years ago. I was a all work no play guy who wanted to get rich so bad. Anyway, long story short I didn't spit game as much at females because I didn't really have time for them at the time. I would spend late late nights up trying to do my business thing.

Later, I moved to a new state and got a new job. I never seemed to recover. My approach game is basically non-existent. Did I lose it?

If so, I know that in order to get it back, I need to practice and just start doing it again...and get back into that comfort zone. But the last few times I did, it just didn't go well. Actually my latest approaches have been some of the worse in my life LOL.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speakeasy

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Yes, you can lose it. I felt like I was making some progress a few years back, now I've lapsed into my normal self. The thing is, game comes naturally for some guys and not so for others. I think it's like a muscle, if you don't use it, it starts to go soft. Some dudes seem to be born naturally muscular and don't have to work out to have cuts, they are lucky bastards. But you are like the guy who was born skinny and must regularly workout at the gym to maintain and when you stop working out, you revert back to your prior self.
 

COD

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use it or lose it very true........YOU GOTTA STAY SHARP AND THINGS change.....cell phones, new net dating sites, speed dating........gotta be in touch with everything.
 
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