Veréngárda
Banned
- Joined
- May 1, 2022
- Messages
- 234
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- Age
- 26
It's been my experience that, unless you're a local celebrity, women will take you enforcing boundaries and standing up for yourself as an excuse to treat you like you're a dangerous woman-hater.
I guess they're not entirely wrong. If you're not gonna respect me as a person, why should you be allowed to feel safe around me whether you're a man or a woman?
Still, it'd be nice to be able to correct a woman's behavior with me without her putting me in her "threat" category.
But I'm starting to think it's not possible. After there's this that's been going around lately:
"If <demonstrates short length> is you, lower your tone with me."
Or, to put it another way:
"If I don't find you attractive, I will treat you however I want and you don't get to say anything."
I guess they're not entirely wrong. If you're not gonna respect me as a person, why should you be allowed to feel safe around me whether you're a man or a woman?
Still, it'd be nice to be able to correct a woman's behavior with me without her putting me in her "threat" category.
But I'm starting to think it's not possible. After there's this that's been going around lately:
"If <demonstrates short length> is you, lower your tone with me."
Or, to put it another way:
"If I don't find you attractive, I will treat you however I want and you don't get to say anything."