"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it possible to get the best of both worlds?

muscleman

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From all you experienced DJs out there, is it possible to maintain a serious relationship with a girl (girlfriend) all with some random encounters on the side? I'm currently in a monogamous relationship with a girl and although she treats me very well, the sex is bomb, and we get along great, the repressed genetic man inside will sooner or later want to spread the seeds. On top of that, it's twice as hard not to when other girls are nearly begging for your d!ck. I mean I haven't found myself/put myself into this situation, but if a hottie started teasin me and we could go then and there it would be pretty damn hard to say no.

So, I'm not at this point but I may get there and I like to plan things out ahead. This girl I'm seeing is pretty good to me. A classic case of 7-8 with bomb personality. She's hot. Not the hottest I've dated but still easy on the eyes. She's a freak in bed. And she treats me well.

Anyway, the concern with this (because it would be considered cheating) is her finding out and bailing out. We've already had "the talk" and at that point I gave up the good time of hittin her AND another girl. I don't want to lose her. Sucks to be a dude sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think it's called Multiple Long-Term Relationships (MLTR) for short. An ethical and honest PUA doesn't have to cheat on his gf - but will be open, honest and clear and have acceptance with his partner for this arrangement. Thus, it's possible that some PUA's have a different gf every day as read in the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss.

If you are really that good as you say you are with the girls, then you should explain this to your current gf and see if she would mind sharing you with other girls, otherwise, find a gf that wouldn't mind. Simple?
 

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Just, don't get caught. You've gotta take risks. When you get old, you'll thank yourself for it.
 
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