"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it possible to get the best of both worlds?

muscleman

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From all you experienced DJs out there, is it possible to maintain a serious relationship with a girl (girlfriend) all with some random encounters on the side? I'm currently in a monogamous relationship with a girl and although she treats me very well, the sex is bomb, and we get along great, the repressed genetic man inside will sooner or later want to spread the seeds. On top of that, it's twice as hard not to when other girls are nearly begging for your d!ck. I mean I haven't found myself/put myself into this situation, but if a hottie started teasin me and we could go then and there it would be pretty damn hard to say no.

So, I'm not at this point but I may get there and I like to plan things out ahead. This girl I'm seeing is pretty good to me. A classic case of 7-8 with bomb personality. She's hot. Not the hottest I've dated but still easy on the eyes. She's a freak in bed. And she treats me well.

Anyway, the concern with this (because it would be considered cheating) is her finding out and bailing out. We've already had "the talk" and at that point I gave up the good time of hittin her AND another girl. I don't want to lose her. Sucks to be a dude sometimes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think it's called Multiple Long-Term Relationships (MLTR) for short. An ethical and honest PUA doesn't have to cheat on his gf - but will be open, honest and clear and have acceptance with his partner for this arrangement. Thus, it's possible that some PUA's have a different gf every day as read in the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss.

If you are really that good as you say you are with the girls, then you should explain this to your current gf and see if she would mind sharing you with other girls, otherwise, find a gf that wouldn't mind. Simple?
 

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Just, don't get caught. You've gotta take risks. When you get old, you'll thank yourself for it.
 
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