"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it possible to get any diseases from just kissing?

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Im just curious about this one. Right now im clean, but am really getting into dating, and I prefer to make out with a girl as soon as I can--So I just want to know what I should be worried about.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can only really get herpes if she has a cold sore on her mouth. If she does do not kiss her. Keep in mind Herpes can be contracted if you do not see a cold sore on her mouth but most women refrain from kissing a guy when they get the tingly feeling on their lip that signals the coming cold sore.

Don't worry about getting anything from kissing besides the flu if she is sick.
 

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You can get mono from somebody sneezing on you... It is like catching a cold
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NickBe said:
You can only really get herpes if she has a cold sore on her mouth. If she does do not kiss her. Keep in mind Herpes can be contracted if you do not see a cold sore on her mouth but most women refrain from kissing a guy when they get the tingly feeling on their lip that signals the coming cold sore.

Don't worry about getting anything from kissing besides the flu if she is sick.
The herpes can be inside her mouth, like on her checks. I know i guy who got that from a girl, didn't see the herpes on her lips or anything. He had a cut in his mouth from flossing.
 

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The herpes is HSV 1, aka 'cold sores.' It can also be transmitted oral-to-genital.

Herpes is usually on the corners of the mouth. It will look like a flat red zit. Google image search for "HSV 1" and "cold sore." They won't all look as bad as the ones you see on the Internet. Small sores can still be contagious, and I'm guessing, easily covered with lipstick. Heavy lipstick might be another red flag.
 

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The vast majority of diseases in humans can be transmitted via kissing.
 

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How did you survive to be old enough to kiss girls and not know that diseases are often transmitted orally? Were you in a coma until recently?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Herpes is probably the most common thing to worry about. Other things are a long shot and the odds of getting it are too small to even worry about.

Thank God I've never contracted herpes...at least I hope not. I've not had a "cold sore"(euphamism for herpes) in my life.
 

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  • Common cold
  • Various forms of the flu
  • Numerous parasitic infections
  • Herpes
  • Mono
  • Leprosy
  • Chlamydia
  • Basically, any air-borne disease and most infectious diseases.
 

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how the f*ck am I supposed to avoid herpes if you can get it from kissing someone? damn, for all I know, I may already have it. :(
 

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So Basically what you need to do is:

Just before you kiss a girl on the lips ask her if she has a cold, the flu, herpes or mono because you are worried you may catch a disease. When she looks at you like your crazy as f*uck and says NO I dont you AS*HOLE, give her a cheeky wink, and say thank god for that, you cant be to carful these days COM'ERE SEXY MWAAH.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I duno, these guys say its a disease I'm gona trust them :) Check your inbox mate.
 
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