"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is it possible to get any diseases from just kissing?

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Im just curious about this one. Right now im clean, but am really getting into dating, and I prefer to make out with a girl as soon as I can--So I just want to know what I should be worried about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You can only really get herpes if she has a cold sore on her mouth. If she does do not kiss her. Keep in mind Herpes can be contracted if you do not see a cold sore on her mouth but most women refrain from kissing a guy when they get the tingly feeling on their lip that signals the coming cold sore.

Don't worry about getting anything from kissing besides the flu if she is sick.
 

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You can get mono from somebody sneezing on you... It is like catching a cold
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NickBe said:
You can only really get herpes if she has a cold sore on her mouth. If she does do not kiss her. Keep in mind Herpes can be contracted if you do not see a cold sore on her mouth but most women refrain from kissing a guy when they get the tingly feeling on their lip that signals the coming cold sore.

Don't worry about getting anything from kissing besides the flu if she is sick.
The herpes can be inside her mouth, like on her checks. I know i guy who got that from a girl, didn't see the herpes on her lips or anything. He had a cut in his mouth from flossing.
 

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The herpes is HSV 1, aka 'cold sores.' It can also be transmitted oral-to-genital.

Herpes is usually on the corners of the mouth. It will look like a flat red zit. Google image search for "HSV 1" and "cold sore." They won't all look as bad as the ones you see on the Internet. Small sores can still be contagious, and I'm guessing, easily covered with lipstick. Heavy lipstick might be another red flag.
 

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The vast majority of diseases in humans can be transmitted via kissing.
 

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How did you survive to be old enough to kiss girls and not know that diseases are often transmitted orally? Were you in a coma until recently?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Herpes is probably the most common thing to worry about. Other things are a long shot and the odds of getting it are too small to even worry about.

Thank God I've never contracted herpes...at least I hope not. I've not had a "cold sore"(euphamism for herpes) in my life.
 

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  • Common cold
  • Various forms of the flu
  • Numerous parasitic infections
  • Herpes
  • Mono
  • Leprosy
  • Chlamydia
  • Basically, any air-borne disease and most infectious diseases.
 

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how the f*ck am I supposed to avoid herpes if you can get it from kissing someone? damn, for all I know, I may already have it. :(
 

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So Basically what you need to do is:

Just before you kiss a girl on the lips ask her if she has a cold, the flu, herpes or mono because you are worried you may catch a disease. When she looks at you like your crazy as f*uck and says NO I dont you AS*HOLE, give her a cheeky wink, and say thank god for that, you cant be to carful these days COM'ERE SEXY MWAAH.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I duno, these guys say its a disease I'm gona trust them :) Check your inbox mate.
 
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