"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it possible to get a cold sore from a bj with no skin/skin contact?

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I know this might be a dumb question but I can't seem to find an answer anywhere. About 2 weeks ago I got a bj over top a wet bathing suit from a slutty chick, I made a previous post about it. Right now I have a couple of "acne" above my lip that are scarring the **** out of me. I tried looking for answers on some other sites, but they didn't fully answer my question. Though from what I read, it does seem that the virus can only be spread to the area where contact was made. There was no direct skin contact. Also I have to tell you that I did not kiss her for this reason. It seems that if there was a transfer, then the symptoms would be on my penis and not on my mouth. I think that the "break out" is just acne because I don't wash my face often enough especially arround my mouth.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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See a doctor.




Cheers!
 

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SharinganUser said:
I know this might be a dumb question
You were right.
SharinganUser said:
I got a bj over top a wet bathing suit from a slutty chick
What the fvck for? What's the point? Better yet, how did you convince a girl to do it? And even better, how did you feel anything?
SharinganUser said:
Right now I have a couple of "acne" above my lip that are scarring the **** out of me
??????? You didn't even touch her right? Use your head.
SharinganUser said:
I think that the "break out" is just acne because I don't wash my face often enough especially arround my mouth
Start washing your damn face you idiot.

So basically you got a blow job with the feeling, and still contracted a disease. You are awesome. FAIL.
 

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how do u get a bj or a swimsuit? you were wearing trunks and she sucked on your trunks? or a speedo she sucked ur speedo? im confused here. i've heard of bj's with a condom on, but that's about it.

next thing we know girls can give u bj's without ever seeing you d!ck.
 

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AAAgent: I was at the beach with her and I just finished swimming and I had a boner because she kept playing with my balls. Then she went down on me with my trunks still on and I pulled her head off of it almost immediately. Then she pulled the trunks down and put a condom on and gave me a bj with a condom on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Irritation from the condom?
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Irritation from the condom?

That doesn't explain why I got a cold sore on my lip.


EDIT: I am thinking that it is more likely that I got it from either sharing food with someone or from from smoking weed with someone.
 
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SharinganUser said:
That doesn't explain why I got a cold sore on my lip.


EDIT: I am thinking that it is more likely that I got it from either sharing food with someone or from from smoking weed with someone.
Oh, lol I thought you ment you had some bump on the "tip of your d!ck."

Your story about some slut sucking you off threw me off...
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Oh, lol I thought you ment you had some bump on the "tip of your d!ck."

Your story about some slut sucking you off threw me off...

Well that was the riskiest thing I've done lately. I know it's just a cold sore but, I am still really bummed out about it and stressed too.
 

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No, you can't get herpes on your lip if someone with herpes sucked you d*ck. Even if you were not wearing a condom.

Seems like it isn't herpes or you got it from something else.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's turned an orangy color today, sorry if I grossed you out.

I am not sure what to do now, I am on a long backpacking excursion in southern asia and I am thinking about going back to Canada to get medical help. But I am not sure how to explain to my parents that I got a cold sore/herpes.
 

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I went to a doctor today and got a blood test done. It was at a chinese hospital (I am in china) and the test results cameback negative for herpes.
 
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