Last night I went to the club with this girl that likes me. She told me that she liked me last night and kept asking me if I liked her but I did not respond because #1at this point she had about 5 shots and weighs 90 lbs and #2 I want to play hard to get with her so she does not get bored of me. She had a tremendously high social proof last night as well; guys would come greet her; buy her drinks. But I was the one she made out with and told me how she felt towards me. When I saw her with her guy friends, I got EXTREMELY jealous. Causing me to be a little needy. When I saw her talk to her friends and ignore me, I would walk away and talk to my friends but like an AFC, I walked back to her like a puppy dog. I was noticing my needyness; so I got one of my homegirl's which is about an HB8 to freak me on the dance floor. I danced so it looked like I was the victim and she was the one indicating interest towards me. As my homegirl left, she went back to me slowly and took me to another place in the club and left all of her friends. Was this a good move or was it bad? The only reason why I used the jealously plot was to let her understand whos in charge and who is on top of things. Also, to make up for my mistake of being needy. Keep in mind she was drunk, and maybe I am too harsh on myself? Please help me! Thanks in advanced.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is it possible to be TOO jealous?
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