"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it possible to be TOO jealous?

Gamble

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Last night I went to the club with this girl that likes me. She told me that she liked me last night and kept asking me if I liked her but I did not respond because #1at this point she had about 5 shots and weighs 90 lbs and #2 I want to play hard to get with her so she does not get bored of me. She had a tremendously high social proof last night as well; guys would come greet her; buy her drinks. But I was the one she made out with and told me how she felt towards me. When I saw her with her guy friends, I got EXTREMELY jealous. Causing me to be a little needy. When I saw her talk to her friends and ignore me, I would walk away and talk to my friends but like an AFC, I walked back to her like a puppy dog. I was noticing my needyness; so I got one of my homegirl's which is about an HB8 to freak me on the dance floor. I danced so it looked like I was the victim and she was the one indicating interest towards me. As my homegirl left, she went back to me slowly and took me to another place in the club and left all of her friends. Was this a good move or was it bad? The only reason why I used the jealously plot was to let her understand whos in charge and who is on top of things. Also, to make up for my mistake of being needy. Keep in mind she was drunk, and maybe I am too harsh on myself? Please help me! Thanks in advanced.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bonhomme

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Not good. The following like a puppy dog bit in particular. Only way to recover from that is by giving a gal a chance to forget it.

The relevant question about jealousy should be: "Is it possible to be too lacking in jealousy?"
 

Gamble

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well this morning we text and I used C&F. But she used it back, damn i hate when girls use C&F!
 
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