"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it possible for me to date a girl whos really into partying?

trans_am03

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Ok so long story short, I messaged this hb on myspace and well she sent me back. Shes always calling my qt and just left me a pic comment saying how hot I am. Well she seem cool n all-we both like the same music and were both into tattoos. Well it seems like shes a little too into drinking and she smokes pot-which are not my things. So my question is do you guys think its still possible for us to date and get along even though Im not so much into partying? I mean I get the feeling that if I dont do that stuff with her then she'll just find a guy who does do that stuff. Oh n btw interest is way up high.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mattb717

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It's possible. I've done it. I dated a girl for a year that partied and smoked for a year, when at the time I did neither. Things worked out just fine, but we split up because she moved. Funny thing though, she actually got defensive when I'd hang around her friends and they'd try to get me to smoke. She'd always tell them off.
 

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Well it seems like shes a little too into drinking and she smokes pot-which are not my things.
Oh n btw interest is way up high.
Translation: she does drugs, parties, but she is severly bangable. You know how this'll end up. If you want to keep it casual, good on ya.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ummm, have you guys even met yet?
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Slow your roll and meet her before bust a nut thinking about dating her.
 

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I always wondered what it would be like to date a party girl....I think that if you wanted to make sure she would be less likely to cheat you would have to go out all the time with her. This could lead to you having to AMOG some dudes just so you can hold it down (or whatever you want to call it), and maybe have to fight.

I would be curious to know others experiances with party girls on here.....

Im a college student and bascially most girls party
 
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