"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it possible for me to date a girl whos really into partying?

trans_am03

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Ok so long story short, I messaged this hb on myspace and well she sent me back. Shes always calling my qt and just left me a pic comment saying how hot I am. Well she seem cool n all-we both like the same music and were both into tattoos. Well it seems like shes a little too into drinking and she smokes pot-which are not my things. So my question is do you guys think its still possible for us to date and get along even though Im not so much into partying? I mean I get the feeling that if I dont do that stuff with her then she'll just find a guy who does do that stuff. Oh n btw interest is way up high.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mattb717

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It's possible. I've done it. I dated a girl for a year that partied and smoked for a year, when at the time I did neither. Things worked out just fine, but we split up because she moved. Funny thing though, she actually got defensive when I'd hang around her friends and they'd try to get me to smoke. She'd always tell them off.
 

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Well it seems like shes a little too into drinking and she smokes pot-which are not my things.
Oh n btw interest is way up high.
Translation: she does drugs, parties, but she is severly bangable. You know how this'll end up. If you want to keep it casual, good on ya.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ummm, have you guys even met yet?
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Slow your roll and meet her before bust a nut thinking about dating her.
 

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I always wondered what it would be like to date a party girl....I think that if you wanted to make sure she would be less likely to cheat you would have to go out all the time with her. This could lead to you having to AMOG some dudes just so you can hold it down (or whatever you want to call it), and maybe have to fight.

I would be curious to know others experiances with party girls on here.....

Im a college student and bascially most girls party
 
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