"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it possible for me to date a girl whos really into partying?

trans_am03

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Ok so long story short, I messaged this hb on myspace and well she sent me back. Shes always calling my qt and just left me a pic comment saying how hot I am. Well she seem cool n all-we both like the same music and were both into tattoos. Well it seems like shes a little too into drinking and she smokes pot-which are not my things. So my question is do you guys think its still possible for us to date and get along even though Im not so much into partying? I mean I get the feeling that if I dont do that stuff with her then she'll just find a guy who does do that stuff. Oh n btw interest is way up high.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mattb717

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It's possible. I've done it. I dated a girl for a year that partied and smoked for a year, when at the time I did neither. Things worked out just fine, but we split up because she moved. Funny thing though, she actually got defensive when I'd hang around her friends and they'd try to get me to smoke. She'd always tell them off.
 

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Well it seems like shes a little too into drinking and she smokes pot-which are not my things.
Oh n btw interest is way up high.
Translation: she does drugs, parties, but she is severly bangable. You know how this'll end up. If you want to keep it casual, good on ya.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ummm, have you guys even met yet?
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Slow your roll and meet her before bust a nut thinking about dating her.
 

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I always wondered what it would be like to date a party girl....I think that if you wanted to make sure she would be less likely to cheat you would have to go out all the time with her. This could lead to you having to AMOG some dudes just so you can hold it down (or whatever you want to call it), and maybe have to fight.

I would be curious to know others experiances with party girls on here.....

Im a college student and bascially most girls party
 
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