"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is It or Isn't It?

salsalero

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so we went on a date with a girl but with my cuz'n as a spare wheel. now to me it was kind of a 'date' but it was more of a meeting to her. all the signs seem to be there but then i get the inside info that it was 'ok'. what does that mean? also this was kind of the first official meeting for over a year and a half. where do i stand now? a second official date was agreed upon...insight?

Thanks guys :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Prodigy746

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Whaaaaaaaaaaa?

I hope you are a troll...

If not i feel sad for you for trying to date your cousin...
 
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Prodigy746 said:
Whaaaaaaaaaaa?

I hope you are a troll...

If not i feel sad for you for trying to date your cousin...
Hes not trying to date his cousin he said he went on a date and his cousin was with him.
 

salsalero

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lol, made a mistake in wording

I met the girl I like somewhere and took my cuz along.
 

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You can't have a date with three people. Sorry, this was not a date.

If you want a "date", ask her out...minus the cousin. Just the typical nice restaurant is great, and if things go well, ask her for coffee afterwards. If she's into it, she'll go. If not, she'll come up with an excuse to go home.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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