"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it okay to never really make a move?

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Brules Rules

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I don't mean like ever, but to just go with the flow, and not be aggressive? None of that kino ****. No verbalizations of your "desires". Just being a girls "friend" until THEY make a move.

It seems like I only get ass by behaving like that, and the harder I make it for them, the better. If I try flirting, or invite them back to my house, or merely touch them, they repell in disgust or treat me like a little kid, even if they've been flirting with me all night. If I just sit there and talk to them, and be nice to them (maybe even come across as shy), I usually end up fvcking them. Maybe not at the end of the night, but eventually.

Being an assh0le, or showing confidence doesn't work for me either. Maybe it's not natural for me? I only get anywhere by being a "sweetheart", who's "funny" and "cute". Whatever.
 

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Going with the flow without kino & game is gonna land your ass straight into the friends zone.
 
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how much azz are you getting by not initiating any moves? like are you bangin so much that your ****'s sore or are you just gettin the occasional puzzy.

If I try flirting, or invite them back to my house, or merely touch them, they repell in disgust or treat me like a little kid, even if they've been flirting with me all night.
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then your either not doing or saying the right things, and this has completely killed any interest levels, or they just didnt have any interest to begin with.
 
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Just being a girls "friend" until THEY make a move.

uh, no. But push-pull involves acting that way SOME of the time, then making a move later. You mix it up and keep them guessing.
 
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it's not that it's not natural, it's just that you're not being congruent. whatever image you have in your head of how to attract a girl, it's not correct and you're blowing yourself out trying to be that image

figure out what you're doing wrong
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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