"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it okay to never really make a move?

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Brules Rules

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I don't mean like ever, but to just go with the flow, and not be aggressive? None of that kino ****. No verbalizations of your "desires". Just being a girls "friend" until THEY make a move.

It seems like I only get ass by behaving like that, and the harder I make it for them, the better. If I try flirting, or invite them back to my house, or merely touch them, they repell in disgust or treat me like a little kid, even if they've been flirting with me all night. If I just sit there and talk to them, and be nice to them (maybe even come across as shy), I usually end up fvcking them. Maybe not at the end of the night, but eventually.

Being an assh0le, or showing confidence doesn't work for me either. Maybe it's not natural for me? I only get anywhere by being a "sweetheart", who's "funny" and "cute". Whatever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going with the flow without kino & game is gonna land your ass straight into the friends zone.
 
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how much azz are you getting by not initiating any moves? like are you bangin so much that your ****'s sore or are you just gettin the occasional puzzy.

If I try flirting, or invite them back to my house, or merely touch them, they repell in disgust or treat me like a little kid, even if they've been flirting with me all night.
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then your either not doing or saying the right things, and this has completely killed any interest levels, or they just didnt have any interest to begin with.
 
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Just being a girls "friend" until THEY make a move.

uh, no. But push-pull involves acting that way SOME of the time, then making a move later. You mix it up and keep them guessing.
 
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it's not that it's not natural, it's just that you're not being congruent. whatever image you have in your head of how to attract a girl, it's not correct and you're blowing yourself out trying to be that image

figure out what you're doing wrong
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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