"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it okay to go after freshman?

bstunt10190

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Heres the situation, im a freshman in college who has been friends with this girl who is a freshman in hs. We met about 2 yrs ago and dated right a away nothing sexual just kissing. Shes fifteen know and i look 17, she recently broke up with her bf and has since started talking to me . Tonight she wants to go to the movies with me . First this girl is incredibly beautiful i mean stunning columbian HB. She says stuff like do u still miss me, do u think about me ad sh!t .

First. is this ok for me to get this girl?
Second if so how should i go about getting her as my social circle is little different than hers now.

I apologize for the countless typing errors but my iphone is god awfilly slow and tge backspace isnt working

Side note i am not looking for a relationship just a fb, ps check out m other post in dj any help there or here is greatly appreciated

Thanks

EDIT: i cleaned up the typos.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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I personally wouldn't do it but if she is to your liking then what is holding you back? The perception society would hold against you? Fvck them do whatever you want to do. It's been two years since I graduated high school and I've seen plenty of sophomores and freshmen in high school that were absolutely gorgeous.
 

bstunt10190

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war against betaism, thanks for your advice. and yes society is part of the reason that holds me back, but then again i see tons of married couples with ten years difference between them.

in any case thanks
 

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Ok, what are the laws like in your country (I don't know where you're from). I'm not going to lie to you, the age difference will give you problems. I'm 25 and dating a 17 year-old. There's no end to the people that show up wanting to voice their disapproval. Basically, you're going to go through alot of hell, so unless you actually like this girl it may not be worth the problems you WILL face. If all you want is a fb then MAKE SURE it's legal. If it isn't whats to keep this girl from turning you in after you give her the boot. P*ssy isn't worth jail time man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bstunt10190

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2.0 and its-me,

again I apologize for my earlier post, as i mentioned before i was typing on my iphone and whenever i pressed backspace the button would get stuck deleted everything i had written frustrating me so i did the best i can.

any advice from you two would be greatly appreciated.
 

cw92

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I personally wouldnt go for it, there are just so many things that can go wrong there


I really doubt her parents would want their 15 yr old daughter going out with a college kid..
 

bstunt10190

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cw92,

i would like to add that her parents already know me because we went out before and her mother would often drive her to see me.

thanks, keep the advice coming
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bstunt10190 said:
cw92,

i would like to add that her parents already know me because we went out before and her mother would often drive her to see me.

thanks, keep the advice coming



Is there an issue then?
 

Following_of_Me

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There is an issue. She's 15, and no matter how young you look, you are too old for her. Find girls your own age, older, or less than two years younger. Anything lower than that is jail bait and getting that doesn't mean you have game...younger girls will go for you no matter what you're like, it's just how it works.
 

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your going to jail. check your local statutory laws.
 

cw92

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i still wouldnt do it..it just sounds so risky...jail time is not worth a quick fling with a 15 yr old.

I am extremely surprised her parents drove her to see you..thats just crazy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dj_jazzybrad

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phatboi408 said:
Been there done that. Sooner or later they will act thier age. Shes 15 and will act 15 sooner or later.

I would keep things on the downlow with the parents and public.
x2.

No matter how old you look and how you feel about her, everybody else always takes it the wrong way. I dated a freshman as a senior (she was really tall and told me she was older than she was) and everybody was like wtf.

I wouldnt, if I were you :up:
 

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I wouldn't do it if I were you, but if you do, wait to have sex with her until the age of consent. I'm guessing you don't want to be charged with statutory rape.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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