"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it okay to go after freshman?

bstunt10190

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Heres the situation, im a freshman in college who has been friends with this girl who is a freshman in hs. We met about 2 yrs ago and dated right a away nothing sexual just kissing. Shes fifteen know and i look 17, she recently broke up with her bf and has since started talking to me . Tonight she wants to go to the movies with me . First this girl is incredibly beautiful i mean stunning columbian HB. She says stuff like do u still miss me, do u think about me ad sh!t .

First. is this ok for me to get this girl?
Second if so how should i go about getting her as my social circle is little different than hers now.

I apologize for the countless typing errors but my iphone is god awfilly slow and tge backspace isnt working

Side note i am not looking for a relationship just a fb, ps check out m other post in dj any help there or here is greatly appreciated

Thanks

EDIT: i cleaned up the typos.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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I personally wouldn't do it but if she is to your liking then what is holding you back? The perception society would hold against you? Fvck them do whatever you want to do. It's been two years since I graduated high school and I've seen plenty of sophomores and freshmen in high school that were absolutely gorgeous.
 

bstunt10190

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war against betaism, thanks for your advice. and yes society is part of the reason that holds me back, but then again i see tons of married couples with ten years difference between them.

in any case thanks
 

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Ok, what are the laws like in your country (I don't know where you're from). I'm not going to lie to you, the age difference will give you problems. I'm 25 and dating a 17 year-old. There's no end to the people that show up wanting to voice their disapproval. Basically, you're going to go through alot of hell, so unless you actually like this girl it may not be worth the problems you WILL face. If all you want is a fb then MAKE SURE it's legal. If it isn't whats to keep this girl from turning you in after you give her the boot. P*ssy isn't worth jail time man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bstunt10190

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2.0 and its-me,

again I apologize for my earlier post, as i mentioned before i was typing on my iphone and whenever i pressed backspace the button would get stuck deleted everything i had written frustrating me so i did the best i can.

any advice from you two would be greatly appreciated.
 

cw92

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I personally wouldnt go for it, there are just so many things that can go wrong there


I really doubt her parents would want their 15 yr old daughter going out with a college kid..
 

bstunt10190

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cw92,

i would like to add that her parents already know me because we went out before and her mother would often drive her to see me.

thanks, keep the advice coming
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bstunt10190 said:
cw92,

i would like to add that her parents already know me because we went out before and her mother would often drive her to see me.

thanks, keep the advice coming



Is there an issue then?
 

Following_of_Me

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There is an issue. She's 15, and no matter how young you look, you are too old for her. Find girls your own age, older, or less than two years younger. Anything lower than that is jail bait and getting that doesn't mean you have game...younger girls will go for you no matter what you're like, it's just how it works.
 

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your going to jail. check your local statutory laws.
 

cw92

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i still wouldnt do it..it just sounds so risky...jail time is not worth a quick fling with a 15 yr old.

I am extremely surprised her parents drove her to see you..thats just crazy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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phatboi408 said:
Been there done that. Sooner or later they will act thier age. Shes 15 and will act 15 sooner or later.

I would keep things on the downlow with the parents and public.
x2.

No matter how old you look and how you feel about her, everybody else always takes it the wrong way. I dated a freshman as a senior (she was really tall and told me she was older than she was) and everybody was like wtf.

I wouldnt, if I were you :up:
 

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I wouldn't do it if I were you, but if you do, wait to have sex with her until the age of consent. I'm guessing you don't want to be charged with statutory rape.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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