"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is it ok to talk about sex with a girl youre after?

duke104

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would talking about sex with her be too personal and potentially put you in the friend zone or is it something that would increase your chances to get her in bed?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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btownbuck2012

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yea dude it's a good idea. joking around about sex will get her thinking about sex while shes talking to you. Just don't be all weird about. keep it light and build from there
 

f283000

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Of course you should talk about sex and kissing too! It gets her thinking about it. The key is to use them as topics of conversation but not do it in a way that makes you seem like a desperate chump out to have sex/kiss her right after you met her for a first date!

These are topics of conversation that will separate you from the average chump talking about video games and other boring usual stuff. Try to use them in a c&f sort of way that will not make her uncomfortable but still get the effect of her thinking about those things.
 

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f283000 can you expand on that?

How would you bring up conversations about kissing and sex?
 

Maxtro

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Yeah, ain't it amazing?

All I can really say, is that I only really learn from experience, and I've had a very limited number of experiences. I have too many huge gaps of time where I don't have any female related events and thus remain stagnant for that time period.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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(JJ)

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to expand on it, its just constant use of sexual innuendos, jokes, and hints.

if you keep the topic on sexual jokes and use a lot of kino you'll never be in the friendzone.
 

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Of course. joke about how you cant wait to pull her hair and whisper naughty things in her ear. What do you think she want to hear about, your stupid job?
 
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