"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it ok to take a week off the gym

NeedToImprove

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im going on vacation and to where i go i dont have a gym nearby is it ok to stop that week and restart with even more determination?

here are some pics of me so you guys can check on what i have to improve, if i need to burn even more body fat. i started a bulking training a month ago, and i can see some results mostly in the biceps and in the chest which is getting wider. also girls seem to look to me more and i feel more confident as well its good when you see results. i also add that im taking creatine and aminoacids.

http://a145.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/101/l_0e3e608ccf7aa0aab683e87b618d8630.jpg

http://a944.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/117/l_25fb3d62b5453bc7c5292b9da1479327.jpg


http://a277.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/89/l_d5a1b3f451f598b9211a9c09cbf7a60c.jpg


im sure i still have LOTS of work to do but im willing to do it. any input will be appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KontrollerX

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Yeah sure.

Its only a week after all and I'm sure it will give your body some great rest for getting back into the swing of things when you get back.
 

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what about the pics guys? any advices or important things you wanna drop in. criticize at will, cuz that's the only way to improve what's wrong.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NeedToImprove

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@warboss alex

you should have seen me in february my weight was 182 pounds (83 kilos) and now in the 158 pounds (72 kilos) i think that was quite a fat loss don't you think?

I also wanna add that my height is 1.72 5'6 feet (1.72 meters). do you think i need to put on how many more pounds warboss relating height with weight?
im taking creatine dont you think that solely will up my weight due to muscle building and water retention?
 

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Yes however make sure you still keep a good diet in your week off!
 

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War boss just wants to turn everyone into buff buff boys =P but that's okay!


Imo, you could use a few more lbs of fat loss(possibly 5-10 lbs), but definetely start eating more, I'd say shoot for a goal of 165-175 lbs after fat loss and you'll be rockin'

I wouldn't be too concerned with fat loss though.
 
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