"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it ok to not DJ sometimes

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I try to act like a DJ as often as I can, but I am still working on making my DJ skills a natural part of my personality. I do fairly well with girls when I really want to step my game up, but I get enough ass for my own satisfaction, and some nights at parties or whatever I just feel like chilling with the guys and not focusing so much on getting laid... this is OK right?

I know its OK, but I always get self consious when I am not hitting on a girl or talking to a girl, perhaps this is a good thing even.

But do you DJs out there ever just want to take a night off from the ladies and maybe just chill by yourself or with the guys instead of worrying about macking it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do whatever the F*&k you want.....Do you think its ok that your not chasing ass 24-7?
 
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dude, I think you are missing an important part of being a DJ. A DJ, by definition, has his own best interests in mind above all else. Hanging out with the guys is a nobler way to spend your time than picking up women. Women are there to make your life more fun, not to be your life. If you feel like hanging out with the guys, then f*cking do it. Thats what being a DJ isall about: having the confidence to do whatever the f*ck you want.
 
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god I hate that word; DJ (don juan) YES YOU SHOULD ALWAYS ACT LIKE A MAN might wana find out what that means first (I dont think you know)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by spider_007
YES YOU SHOULD ALWAYS ACT LIKE A MAN
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Spider makes a damn good point.

Sure, maybe you will have a night where you dont #close every girl you see.

Doesnt mean you just FORGET the rest of it.
 
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