RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Yes... under the right set of circumstances... anyone will cheat. Men and women. Now I do agree that for many it would take a whole hell of a lot to get them to stray, but with women.... damn, first she has to be unhappy with the dude she is with, and other dude that she thinks is better comes along... and if that supposed 'better dude' knows how to push her emotional buttons it will happen. However, society always expects men will, but women won't... men are pigs: chicks are angels. Chicks are no different than dudes with the possible exception that women can hide this much better than we can, mostly because women look out for this and men don't. Also, a woman's friends will help her hide this... most of the so called 'friends' a man thinks he might have will fvcking narc on him in a heartbeat.... Chicks are a lot better at keeping secrets from men than men are from women, it's a fact.I get the idea behind this, but every single one? in that case you might as well say every single man will cheat. But we know that's not the case. Many people may cheat, but every single person? again, I get the idea behind just assuming that for your own sake, but isn't that a bit far in truth?
I've mentioned this before, but when I was in college I worked as a bouncer in a club part time on weekends. First let me dispel something, being a bouncer is a sh!tty @ss job, but it paid well and didn't interfere with my school work. I really don't know why this gets so romanticized. Most confrontations I had were not with dudes, but drunk chicks, and 3 times out of 4 when I had a problem with a dude it was because some chick was involved. I'm not making excuses for these dudes, just because some chick is pulling some emotional BS on you doesn't mean you have the right to lose self control... but chicks are a catalyst for dumb @ss behavior in clubs.
Having said this, we used to get gaggles of hens on a 'girl's night out' all the fvcking time, and usually they were there to hook up with men, or play around with them, get them to buy them drinks... then they would bolt and I can remember at least a dozen times when I had to take care of some dumb @ss MF, who would start something with the bartender because a 'girl's night out' bunch of women, ran up a $200 bar tab on his card. On occasion, we would have to show some to the door because they were blowing some dude in the men's room. The owner didn't want them tossed out for this, because having women in the club was important. All we would do is tell them nicely to take it out in the car, and make sure they had a stamp to get back in. Jesus... I'm laughing remembering some of that. One time I walked in on a couple, in the men's room, just has the dude was 'finishing' and the women, who was clearly married laughed and said, "We're done anyway." and went back in the club. As she was leaving, she was laughing telling the dude. "I should just go home and give my hubby a big kiss!"
Ah the memories.... Look, the only way ONLY WAY to keep a chick loyal to you, is to never let her interest level in you drop so low that she will be tempted. It also helps if you pick the right chick, someone that so much has to happen before she strays that you can slip up every now and then.... because no one is perfect, and no one can walk the tight rope their whole lives. A chick that is in love with and happy with her man will not cheat on him... period. It's a combination of being the best man you can be and picking the right chick, and never forgetting know matter how awesome you think your girl might be she can and will dump your @ss for another dude until such time that her looks start to fade with age...