"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is it ok to give hug to a girl in American culture?

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literally... i asked a random girl to play air hockey with me, and i had fun gaming her. then when i had to go, i told her it was nice seeing you and gave her hug. i saw her later on the same day and she seemed pretty open and positive to my presence.


now the reason i ask this is b/c it's been about 2yrs since coming into US, and i only know the superficial side of this American culture. does this work as being needy or does this work as exhibiting confidence and masculine sexuality?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I always thought it was a custom to hug a girl when you guys part ways. Nothing needy about hugging a girl at all.
 
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Depends, if it's someone I've met before there's always a hello and goodbye hug.

Someone I just met, if the vibes are good then I hug away.
 
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Hugs are perfectly acceptable. The more you give them the better people will feel around you. Just keep it within reason, or else you might come off as gay.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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