"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it ok to care?

SnapOutOfIt

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Rite say for instance your girl has jus text messaged you saying "I need a hug :( xx" is it ok to ring up and see whats wrong etc or is that something a friend wud do? I get confused at where the line is drawn between acting liek a friend and not her love muscle!
Another example say Ur busy with ur boys and she rings and says "i'm stuck locked out my house no keys and i have to go to work"

Would u leave ur boys and go help her (Show the caring side)????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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your girl...I need a hug
Girl-friend..or friend?
GF - I would...
friend... ask her what's up, let her blab for a few minutes, if it's really depressing, throw her off by giving her her hug in a really big way...or if it's just petty stuff, pick her up and carry her around.

"i'm stuck locked out my house no keys and i have to go to work"
1. depends on what I was doing
2. you would ENSURE she pays you back "I'll come pick you up if you make me supper at your house"

Basically, you're using the caring to be slightly ****y, there's nothin wrong with caring, as long as you get some payback. :p
 
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