"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it ok to care?

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Rite say for instance your girl has jus text messaged you saying "I need a hug :( xx" is it ok to ring up and see whats wrong etc or is that something a friend wud do? I get confused at where the line is drawn between acting liek a friend and not her love muscle!
Another example say Ur busy with ur boys and she rings and says "i'm stuck locked out my house no keys and i have to go to work"

Would u leave ur boys and go help her (Show the caring side)????
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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your girl...I need a hug
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Girl-friend..or friend?
GF - I would...
friend... ask her what's up, let her blab for a few minutes, if it's really depressing, throw her off by giving her her hug in a really big way...or if it's just petty stuff, pick her up and carry her around.

"i'm stuck locked out my house no keys and i have to go to work"
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1. depends on what I was doing
2. you would ENSURE she pays you back "I'll come pick you up if you make me supper at your house"

Basically, you're using the caring to be slightly ****y, there's nothin wrong with caring, as long as you get some payback. :p
 
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