"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it ok to care?

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Rite say for instance your girl has jus text messaged you saying "I need a hug :( xx" is it ok to ring up and see whats wrong etc or is that something a friend wud do? I get confused at where the line is drawn between acting liek a friend and not her love muscle!
Another example say Ur busy with ur boys and she rings and says "i'm stuck locked out my house no keys and i have to go to work"

Would u leave ur boys and go help her (Show the caring side)????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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your girl...I need a hug
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Girl-friend..or friend?
GF - I would...
friend... ask her what's up, let her blab for a few minutes, if it's really depressing, throw her off by giving her her hug in a really big way...or if it's just petty stuff, pick her up and carry her around.

"i'm stuck locked out my house no keys and i have to go to work"
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1. depends on what I was doing
2. you would ENSURE she pays you back "I'll come pick you up if you make me supper at your house"

Basically, you're using the caring to be slightly ****y, there's nothin wrong with caring, as long as you get some payback. :p
 
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