"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it normal to prefer adolescent girls?

Chagnon

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Is it is normal for a man to find adolescent girls about 12-16 more desirable than 18+ adult women?

To me they are much more attractive. Their boobs are perkier, their skin is softer and smoother and their faces have that lovely adolescent sparkle that starts fading away after they leave school.

Is it normal for a man in his 30's to think this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sure, if you're a pedophile.
 

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it's like many other things,man. Where todraw theline? In some states,the line LEGALLY is drawn at age 18, in others, 16, In others, there's no age, IF you get the parent's consent to MARRY. In much of the world, there's no legal limit at all. Pedophile means "childl-over". Many females are not children anymore at 15 or so. Also, MANY women are not really capable of making good decisions until they are 25or so (if EVER).
 

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Chagnon said:
Is it is normal for a man to find adolescent girls about 12-16 more desirable than 18+ adult women?

To me they are much more attractive. Their boobs are perkier, their skin is softer and smoother and their faces have that lovely adolescent sparkle that starts fading away after they leave school.

Is it normal for a man in his 30's to think this?
Yes it's normal. Girls in developed areas of the world, who experienced precocious puberty, are at their peak of femininity and fertility within a couple of years of 16. In third world sh1t holes where girls go through puberty at age 16 to 19, the girls are usually awkward and as underdeveloped as their cities' water and sewer systems until they're over 20.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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