Is it logical to spin plates?

[Trump]

I know this site preaches "spin plates, don't value girls, they are just good for sex and babies and entertainment, hold frame, etc, etc, etc."

But wondering how this site can preach such stuff when the men who have built cities, roads, schools, highways, and buildings value good looking women like crazy?

When Hollywood stars and directors and actors and models and the people who are rich and powerful value good looking women like crazy?

When first world nations value women like crazy?

Heck, our friend Warren Buffet who is a brilliant brilliant brilliant guy has said the MOST important thing to be successful in life is not education, is not money, is not investment, it is who you MARRY.

And then SS members advise "don't value girls. Spin plates, spin plates, spin plates?

Am I missing something here? Are they are all rich and famous sucker blue pills and we are normal average red pills?

 

[Serenity]

You mean like Sweden? What a wonderful place. I knew three girls from there, all of whom felt forced to move. The last was punched in the face by a rapeugee.

In case you haven't noticed, Sweden is full of third world immigrants.

I know this site preaches "spin plates, don't value girls, they are just good for sex and babies and entertainment, hold frame, etc, etc, etc."

I never really bought into that antisocial sh!t.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

It all depends on what you want.

Millionaire Next Door showed that who you marry is important of you want to be a regular guy (not a robber barron type) and amass a million dollars over their lives.

Also consider that it's pretty common for folks to decry what they can't get.

Dating multiple girls does have plenty of merits. It helps you hold the frame (as you've always got a backup so you don't have to take much shyte) and few other practices can rapidly improve your social skills than actively pursuing several girls at once.

Bottom line is do what you want for your own reasons, take advice that helps and ignore the rest.

Life is one gigantic sorting, qualifying and self improvement process.

 

[marmel75]

Because all the rich and powerful men you speak of have multiple women on the side regardless of how they "appear" in public.

Are you that clueless about things OP? You've been here way too long to be this clueless.

 

[ubercat]

Paris is full of 18th and 19th century apartments where the rich men used to stash their mistresses. Fvcking your way to advancement is widely accepted in modern China. Any guy with a government job in China has some small power and is expected to maintain a mistress. Spinning plates will never go out of fashion. And as I've pointed out many times it's an ideal selection system for finding an ltr worthy girl. And initially girls don't mind sharing. It's only later on when they bond with you that they don't want to share their turf

How much u invest in your girlfriend is up to you. I'd say if it's not being reciprocated keep it to a minimum. Every girlfriend I've had has grown as a person over their time with me none of them were ripped off but very few ever acknowledged the help and support. But some did and those are the ones you feel like helping.

 

[Trump]

Dating multiple girls does have plenty of merits. It helps you hold the frame (as you've always got a backup so you don't have to take much shyte) and few other practices can rapidly improve your social skills than actively pursuing several girls at once.

I think you can be as solid dating one girl than if you were dating multiple girls.

Bottom line is do what you want for your own reasons, take advice that helps and ignore the rest.

Good point.

Because all the rich and powerful men you speak of have multiple women on the side regardless of how they "appear" in public.

OK fair enough.

Warren Buffet, Net Worth 100B US: The MOST IMPORTANT thing in life is WHO your WIFE is.
SS member, Net Worth $50,000 US: "spin plates, don't value girls, hold frame."

Who would you trust?

 

[marmel75]

I think you can be as solid dating one girl than if you were dating multiple girls.



Good point.




OK fair enough.

Warren Buffet, Net Worth 100B US: The MOST IMPORTANT thing in life is WHO your WIFE is.
SS member, Net Worth $50,000 US: "spin plates, don't value girls, hold frame."

Who would you trust?

So you use one example of the 10% of rich guys who don't? That's your whole argument? It's a highly lame one. For every 1 rich guy who doesn't I can show you at least 9 others that do...hell it's probably 1 in 20 that don't. This holds true pretty much throughout the course of history, btw. But you decide to take one person versus millions of others who do? Brilliant argument.

And how do you know what has happened in Buffet's hotel rooms over the past 50 years? Were you there filming him secretly? Either you are supremely naive or just plain dumb. Which is it?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

In this market I believe it is or can be logical. It all depends on the scenario and what said person is looking for. I think it’s good for new DJ’s to read a “response” like this when a woman is treating him like absolute shït. Scarcity mindset is extremely prevalent in todays society.

Woman are natural plate spinners thus makes logical sense why they do it, right?

As long as your smart and you are wrapping it up, not spreading diseases.

I’ll will give you this it can be extremely risky if you come across a plate that has baby rabbies.
There are plenty out there looking for beta bucks or even a sperm donor. There are pros & cons no doubt.

As far as Warren_B, yeah he grew up in a completely different generation.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I know this site preaches "spin plates, don't value girls, they are just good for sex and babies and entertainmen

Wrong. Some emotards on this site preach this.

Other members are a lot more rational than that.

 

[Roober]

@Trump

You spin plates to get over oneitis, or
You spin plates because you don't want a relationship, or
You spin plates to find a good woman

Buffet says the same thing as Tony Robbins. Basically, you can only be as good as the people you spend the most time with. Take your spouse/gf/etc and your 5 best friends. What do they do? How sucessful are they? That is a reflection of yourself. Crabs in a barrel or birds of a feather? I have stated this numerous times that if you really look at "the book of pook", "the rational male", and even the DJ bible; it is fundamentally a source for finding the best woman for you. Making yourself the best version of yourself and finding a partner that relishes that person.

The advantage is that acting this way will net you a much larger pool of women, and it is much easier to swap out women than commit to the intricacies of an LTR. That and relationships are not for everyone. Buffet is correct, you need to find a good woman, but you should spin plates to find that match for you. That, or you could just spin plates indefinitely. Either option is perfectly okay, it is up to each individual to make that decision.

The trouble here is there are two types of men on this site...
1) those that spin plates to find a good woman
2) those that spin plates because they like the variety and are not ready (or do not want) for a relationship

If you are option 1, you have to be able to filter out the guys with the "spin plates, don't value girls, they are just good for sex and babies and entertainment, hold frame, etc, etc, etc." mantra

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

The trouble here is there are two types of men on this site...
1) those that spin plates to find a good woman
2) those that spin plates because they like the variety and are not ready (or do not want) for a relationship

Further to add to this, spinning plates serves two primary purposes (other than sexual gratification):

-It teaches men how to behave with women, no matter what sort relationship he aspires to. All things considered, even a sexual relationship is still a relationship.
-It teaches him about the behaviour of women, for the very same reasons.

 

[Glassguy]

You wont hear me say "dont value women". As a matter of fact, I am a complete gentleman when I go out with a woman. Holding doors, walking on the street side of us, etc. Chivalry isnt dead with Glassguy lol.

What you will hear from me is:

1.) You must value yourself more than any woman. Self explanatory. Dont put someone else's happiness ahead of your own.
2.) You must make yourself happy and not rely on anyone else (especially a woman) to make you happy. Once you learn how to be self happy, a good woman just makes it better. If you cant make yourself truly happy, a woman will never make you happy.
3.) Dont be afraid to walk. When a woman's actions toward you are negative and it isnt going to improve, walk away and test more water.
4.) Spinning plates- makes it easier to not get too attached, makes it easier to walk away from BS and keeps you looking for the "better deal" if you arent completely sold on the current one.

I am a firm believer in being a good dude until someone makes me not be a good dude to them anymore.