"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it just me...?

Juan_Man

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Or does it seem like every girl on the planet has a boyfriend? And the rare amount of girls that are single are unfriendly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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THIAGO BRAZIL II

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there are single women out there. If they are unfriendly, it is their problem. You are a friendly person, good for you! They are not.. their problem.
 

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Is this the same Thiago Brazil from back in the day? Welcome back!
 

wheelin&dealin

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Juan_Man said:
Or does it seem like every girl on the planet has a boyfriend? And the rare amount of girls that are single are unfriendly.
Clubs are filled with single girls. They filter out all the ones with boyfriends.. most of the time. ;)
 

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I find clubs are full of relationships. I used to think single girls didnt exsist and that the ones that did were up themselves...Its a load of bull...Its also not the right way to think. Get yourself out of that thought process and general rut. Go Sarge on!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wheelin&dealin said:
Clubs are filled with single girls. They filter out all the ones with boyfriends.. most of the time. ;)
Some chick(who has had a boyfriend of 3 years) at work went a local club,damn if I would have known she was there I would have gone in a heart beat...She is super fine and its a perfect excuss for me to start the kino. Oh well no point fretting over a lost oppurtunity:rock:
 

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I've noticed that most women I've been around who I'd hook up with have boyfriends. They may not be happy and on the prowl for someone new, but VERY rarely will you come across one who isn't atleast fvcking some guy. If they get lonely enough they'll just go to a club/bar and let a guy pick them up. No real effort has to be put into this, as we all know, just look pretty and you'll get laid. I think the best thing would be not to think about it, just approach any woman, especially if you don't know whether or not she's seeing someone. I made the mistake of getting upset when I was being pursued by a girl who I found out later had a bf. I should've just fvcked her, it's what she wanted after all right?
 

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My problem lately has been that I will meet and start talking to a girl regularly and think there is some potential. She's cute, friendly, and very approachable, yet in the back of my mind, I'm like "Wait. This girl is probably seeing someone. Wait it out and pick up more clues before you start trying to pursue her." And before I know it, my suspicions are confirmed. The current girl I like may or may not have a boyfriend. I saw her at the library with some guy and they walked out together (actually he was maybe a foot behind her as they walked out). Before that, I always saw her walking by herself. I'm still wondering if there's a chance.
 

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I hear you man, and it really annoys me, but it can't be helped. Unless you ask them upfront how else are you going to know without talking to them and escalating to something more? You know they love attention, so most times they'll be really cool and flirty until you make a move and then it's confirmed whether you'll get anything more out of it or they string you along (if you allow it).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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