"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is it just me?....

nacho

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i seem to be very attracted to girls i cant get, well not get actually girls im not supposed to get. (either, married, in a relationship, crazy family, ect)

i lose alot of interest when i know i can get the girl, i actually love working for sex and i hate it when its given up so easily.

why the f*** is that?!?!?

i used to have (still to this day) one of the hottest girlfriend ive ever seen, she took me wherever i wanted and got me anything i wanted wether its material or personal favors.
cmon! i used to smoke a bowl watching tv while getting head, and i lost total interest because it was too easy.

is this normal??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by nacho


is this normal??
Yup

It's the psychology of human behaviour. Give something to someone for free and they'll take it for granted, and eventually get bored... make them work for it and they'll appreciate it more when the reward IS given.

It works for both men, and women... it's just that nowadays, it's usually the man that is bending over backwards for the woman.

We tend to call this AFC behaviour, but that isn't exactly accurate. When you love and care for someone, your instinct makes you want to give them stuff, be it material or otherwise.

Most people feel they don't deserve that kind of treatment, on a subconcious level, so when someone gives you things you don't feel you earned, it seems like the person is trying too hard.

That's where the loss of interest comes from.
 

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nah its not just you. I love married women, milfs, young girls, girls with boyfriends etc etc
 

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oh, and in regards to the married chicks and such... well..... you know there might be something of quality in them, since someone sqw them as marriage material. It's subconcious, and woemn will say the same thing for men.

A guy is alot hotter and more desirable whe he already has a woman
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
oh, and in regards to the married chicks and such... well..... you know there might be something of quality in them, since someone sqw them as marriage material. It's subconcious, and woemn will say the same thing for men.

A guy is alot hotter and more desirable whe he already has a woman
exactly
 

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do this all the time!

gals with bfs are definatly ppl i get too into!

i love the challenge!

when a gal says " i like you" or whateva i think "job done, cant be arsed now if theres no challenge, next"

really pisses me off! but ahwell!

have my eye on the neighbour right now, shes married but new to the place and looks like the type who could show me a thing or two!
 

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FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Smok'n, watching TV, and Getting Head!!!!!!!!!!! BORED????????

:crazy:


damn higher standerds & Need for challenges!
 

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i love a chalenge.
hearing a girl say "no" is the biggest turn on i can get.
 

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Originally posted by nacho
i love a chalenge.
hearing a girl say "no" is the biggest turn on i can get.
please dont let us see you on the 6 oclock news
hahah sorry couldnt resist that one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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