"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is it just me?....

nacho

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i seem to be very attracted to girls i cant get, well not get actually girls im not supposed to get. (either, married, in a relationship, crazy family, ect)

i lose alot of interest when i know i can get the girl, i actually love working for sex and i hate it when its given up so easily.

why the f*** is that?!?!?

i used to have (still to this day) one of the hottest girlfriend ive ever seen, she took me wherever i wanted and got me anything i wanted wether its material or personal favors.
cmon! i used to smoke a bowl watching tv while getting head, and i lost total interest because it was too easy.

is this normal??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by nacho


is this normal??
Yup

It's the psychology of human behaviour. Give something to someone for free and they'll take it for granted, and eventually get bored... make them work for it and they'll appreciate it more when the reward IS given.

It works for both men, and women... it's just that nowadays, it's usually the man that is bending over backwards for the woman.

We tend to call this AFC behaviour, but that isn't exactly accurate. When you love and care for someone, your instinct makes you want to give them stuff, be it material or otherwise.

Most people feel they don't deserve that kind of treatment, on a subconcious level, so when someone gives you things you don't feel you earned, it seems like the person is trying too hard.

That's where the loss of interest comes from.
 

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nah its not just you. I love married women, milfs, young girls, girls with boyfriends etc etc
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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oh, and in regards to the married chicks and such... well..... you know there might be something of quality in them, since someone sqw them as marriage material. It's subconcious, and woemn will say the same thing for men.

A guy is alot hotter and more desirable whe he already has a woman
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smooth Player 056

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
oh, and in regards to the married chicks and such... well..... you know there might be something of quality in them, since someone sqw them as marriage material. It's subconcious, and woemn will say the same thing for men.

A guy is alot hotter and more desirable whe he already has a woman
exactly
 

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do this all the time!

gals with bfs are definatly ppl i get too into!

i love the challenge!

when a gal says " i like you" or whateva i think "job done, cant be arsed now if theres no challenge, next"

really pisses me off! but ahwell!

have my eye on the neighbour right now, shes married but new to the place and looks like the type who could show me a thing or two!
 

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FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Smok'n, watching TV, and Getting Head!!!!!!!!!!! BORED????????

:crazy:


damn higher standerds & Need for challenges!
 

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i love a chalenge.
hearing a girl say "no" is the biggest turn on i can get.
 

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Originally posted by nacho
i love a chalenge.
hearing a girl say "no" is the biggest turn on i can get.
please dont let us see you on the 6 oclock news
hahah sorry couldnt resist that one.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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