"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it just me?

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Is it just me or does anyone else get sick of the constant whining and complaining on these forums? It's like one post after another is someone complaining or asking questions and not reading or following sound advice? Does anyone else get sick of it? Or do you like to wallow in other people's constant misery even AFTER they've been given good advice?

Can ANYONE make posts about SUCCESS and keep these forums on a POSITIVE note? Jesus christ...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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synergy1

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for the guys who are new/struggling, the questions are fine. Can't fault anyone for wanting to improve. on the other hand, its irritating when the same people who ***** and moan turn around and offer their advice.

Remember this: the dudes who are successful probably aren't posting as much. I know I wasn't when I was getting more action!
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Is it just me or does anyone else get sick of the constant whining and complaining on these forums? It's like one post after another is someone complaining or asking questions and not reading or following sound advice? Does anyone else get sick of it? Or do you like to wallow in other people's constant misery even AFTER they've been given good advice?

Can ANYONE make posts about SUCCESS and keep these forums on a POSITIVE note? Jesus christ...
Do you find it ironic that you are complaining about people complaining?
 

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I think its more along the lines of Sosuave has so many new people joining. Most the threads that may seem repetetive are from users who have just joined and know nothing. Maybe they need some advice really quick as they are dealing with a difficult situation at hand at the moment.

Hey I applaud all them for having the guts to face the wolves :D.

But it would be helpful if they took the advice as you guys know much more than noobies like me. (I am guilty but I apologized.) haha.

everyone's gotta start somewhere.
 

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I actually know Jesus Christ. He's a pretty cool guy once you get to know him.

Anyways, to answer your question, success stories are rare as with any hobby. This is a place to learn. Just like any hobby people desire to succeed at, you will see more people starting this stuff, but only the passionate ones will get past the starting line and eventually taste success.

I just read a thread dealing with the same general topic, so your not alone on this. I would love to read more success stories, but i'm learning to be content with what I get.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The main reason success stories are rare here is because when a guy finally figures it out, he leaves the forum. The ratio to people who know what they are doing, and are helpful to the guys who don't have a clue are really bad.

The guys that are good who do choose to stay and help others, often get frustrated, so they just stop posting.
 

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Most of the whiney guys that post, get advice, promptly ignore or debate it, then post back with continued fail want a magical quick fix.

Rarely do they bother to take the time to read archives or the bible or anything else that would really help them change their core ideas which in fact are really causing their failure.

9 times out of 10 I can tell in a guys first paragraph whether or not he's done any reading elseware on this site.

Most of the questions on this forum have already been posted and answered if they would just take the time.

But, alas, they won't, and they wont improve, and then they will post some rant about SS being a crap site.

Oh well.

In the big scheme of things it's their loss because SS is a HUGE resource.

Over and Out.
 
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