"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it just me?

Naughty Ninja

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Is it just me or does anyone else get sick of the constant whining and complaining on these forums? It's like one post after another is someone complaining or asking questions and not reading or following sound advice? Does anyone else get sick of it? Or do you like to wallow in other people's constant misery even AFTER they've been given good advice?

Can ANYONE make posts about SUCCESS and keep these forums on a POSITIVE note? Jesus christ...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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synergy1

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for the guys who are new/struggling, the questions are fine. Can't fault anyone for wanting to improve. on the other hand, its irritating when the same people who ***** and moan turn around and offer their advice.

Remember this: the dudes who are successful probably aren't posting as much. I know I wasn't when I was getting more action!
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Is it just me or does anyone else get sick of the constant whining and complaining on these forums? It's like one post after another is someone complaining or asking questions and not reading or following sound advice? Does anyone else get sick of it? Or do you like to wallow in other people's constant misery even AFTER they've been given good advice?

Can ANYONE make posts about SUCCESS and keep these forums on a POSITIVE note? Jesus christ...
Do you find it ironic that you are complaining about people complaining?
 

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I think its more along the lines of Sosuave has so many new people joining. Most the threads that may seem repetetive are from users who have just joined and know nothing. Maybe they need some advice really quick as they are dealing with a difficult situation at hand at the moment.

Hey I applaud all them for having the guts to face the wolves :D.

But it would be helpful if they took the advice as you guys know much more than noobies like me. (I am guilty but I apologized.) haha.

everyone's gotta start somewhere.
 

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I actually know Jesus Christ. He's a pretty cool guy once you get to know him.

Anyways, to answer your question, success stories are rare as with any hobby. This is a place to learn. Just like any hobby people desire to succeed at, you will see more people starting this stuff, but only the passionate ones will get past the starting line and eventually taste success.

I just read a thread dealing with the same general topic, so your not alone on this. I would love to read more success stories, but i'm learning to be content with what I get.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The main reason success stories are rare here is because when a guy finally figures it out, he leaves the forum. The ratio to people who know what they are doing, and are helpful to the guys who don't have a clue are really bad.

The guys that are good who do choose to stay and help others, often get frustrated, so they just stop posting.
 

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Most of the whiney guys that post, get advice, promptly ignore or debate it, then post back with continued fail want a magical quick fix.

Rarely do they bother to take the time to read archives or the bible or anything else that would really help them change their core ideas which in fact are really causing their failure.

9 times out of 10 I can tell in a guys first paragraph whether or not he's done any reading elseware on this site.

Most of the questions on this forum have already been posted and answered if they would just take the time.

But, alas, they won't, and they wont improve, and then they will post some rant about SS being a crap site.

Oh well.

In the big scheme of things it's their loss because SS is a HUGE resource.

Over and Out.
 
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