"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is it just me or is it really hard to be a man now

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If you want to get a nice woman(and wife her), you have to be handsome,tall, rich, educated, smart, funny,confident, good in bed, tough yet sensitive, protective, not jealous and you also need to have good conversation skills, big penis and always a plus with good oral skill.......and the list goes on!

Women reads theirs magazines and they are not settling for less, you need to have all that, man!

Talking about pressures...

And the opposite: if you are a woman and wants to get a good man(and keep him): you need to be: beautiful, smart(not necessary) and sane, thats all.


Thats just my thought for today, post your thoughts too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its not something u try to be, it's something you are

u just have it..... it's like blinking or breathing..... u don't think about it
 
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If you really believe that, you're only making excuses for yourself. I'm not half of those things, but I've still had tons of success. There's plenty of girls out there for every guy, now go find some of yours!!
 
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CDogg said:
And the opposite: if you are a woman and wants to get a good man(and keep him): you need to be: beautiful, smart(not necessary) and sane, thats all.
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In that case, it is tougher for women.

Think about it. If you're an ugly chick (which you cant change), you're worthless. But if you're an ugly man, there's a chance you can still make it with game/money/fame (which you can change).

I'd take looks over money any day - you can't change your looks, but you can make money.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Then those women better ALL look like Angelina Jolie, be really funny and good communicators, they better be really good in bed and be very decent and confident women...

Because ALL the others are going to be married to a dildo! And you know what they say about dildo's... that's right, they don't mow the lawn! :rolleyes:

But anyways, all those thigns you said, isn't that what you want to be in the first place? Like, not just because 'chicks dig it' but because you just want it?

You see there is a difference here between wanting to be all those things and wanting to be all those things because chicks dig it! Personally i know i want to be a number of the things you mentioned (and i AM i number of those things because of that), but i really don't give a rats ass if some woman lists those as her 'requirements'. It's not going to stop me from approaching her and hitting on her ;-)
 
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