is it just me or is it really hard to be a man now

[CDogg]

If you want to get a nice woman(and wife her), you have to be handsome,tall, rich, educated, smart, funny,confident, good in bed, tough yet sensitive, protective, not jealous and you also need to have good conversation skills, big penis and always a plus with good oral skill.......and the list goes on!

Women reads theirs magazines and they are not settling for less, you need to have all that, man!

Talking about pressures...

And the opposite: if you are a woman and wants to get a good man(and keep him): you need to be: beautiful, smart(not necessary) and sane, thats all.


Thats just my thought for today, post your thoughts too.

 

[Soprano]

its not something u try to be, it's something you are

u just have it..... it's like blinking or breathing..... u don't think about it

 

[chaosphere]

If you really believe that, you're only making excuses for yourself. I'm not half of those things, but I've still had tons of success. There's plenty of girls out there for every guy, now go find some of yours!!

 

[diplomatic_lies]

And the opposite: if you are a woman and wants to get a good man(and keep him): you need to be: beautiful, smart(not necessary) and sane, thats all.

In that case, it is tougher for women.

Think about it. If you're an ugly chick (which you cant change), you're worthless. But if you're an ugly man, there's a chance you can still make it with game/money/fame (which you can change).

I'd take looks over money any day - you can't change your looks, but you can make money.

 

[Soprano]

this thread is maaaaaaaaaaad female

 

[Socialreject]

Then those women better ALL look like Angelina Jolie, be really funny and good communicators, they better be really good in bed and be very decent and confident women...

Because ALL the others are going to be married to a dildo! And you know what they say about dildo's... that's right, they don't mow the lawn!

But anyways, all those thigns you said, isn't that what you want to be in the first place? Like, not just because 'chicks dig it' but because you just want it?

You see there is a difference here between wanting to be all those things and wanting to be all those things because chicks dig it! Personally i know i want to be a number of the things you mentioned (and i AM i number of those things because of that), but i really don't give a rats ass if some woman lists those as her 'requirements'. It's not going to stop me from approaching her and hitting on her ;-)