Yeah, hughmans right have a good conversation on the phone every now and then.
The Dj attitude against conversation rules, are like that for a reason. The reason being so they don't get fully attached and neither do you. You can have long conversations without turning into an emotional tampon, it's called C+F and having a fun conversation that after your 2 hours she's smiling and thinking about you, wondering about you.
This is what you want in high school and even older then high school you want them smiling and thinking about you, if you always have a girl smiling every time she talks to you you've got her in the bag, and if you can have 2 hour fun phone conversation you've got them, and skills. Problem is most of you guys can't hold a fun conversation for that long or you think you can't, so you bail after 15 minutes, she leaves smiling but 15 minutes later (because she was thinking about you) she then realizes you bailed after 15 minutes for probably not the greatest reason. Your NOT going to lose interest you going to GAIN it by having fun talking on the phone for 2 hours, it just leaves more room for failure, can you keep her having fun on the phone for 2 hours without ending up talking about her problems and slowly becoming an emotional tampon??? If you can't stick to the small conversations.
On The other thread "How exactly does one execute "keep away"?" Kraytkiller said "Highschool girls are sensitive insecure messes" this is nothing but the truth. "Being the jerk that doesn't have time for his girl" Doesn't work all the time, and some high schools girls it just won't work they'll just say to themselves being the insecure messes they are "fvck him, i'm not going to bother with some guy that hardly wants to talk to me, he doesn't even like me" and then you get nexted. just like that
It's also OK to talk a little about their problems girls need to know their man has a sensitive helpful side, especially if she's your girlfriend. I know this website also practically ban girlfriends as well, but if you live in a town like mine it's much easier to have a girlfriend, and a lot of high schools are like this, fact is FB's are rare. if you can find one good on you, but the are rare and to be honest i don't have time for them.
It's all about balance and what you can do, bend the rules to fit you. If you can have a 2 hour fun conversation, do it! but still maintain balance, it doesn't mean you have to have these 2 hour conversations every day but keep it fun and you won't lose interest from having these conversations.
Highschool girls are different!, I know in my high school every girl wants a LTR, it's like they've been brainwashed and they just won't change their thinking. Way to get them because of this is to be a boyfriend. You don't have to make it an LTR you can keep it short but if your getting regular good sex, why not make it last a year. You'll also learn a lot, thats just an example of how it is in my town.
I know the city an hour from me, it's completely different (i spend some weekends there) They girls are happy with a different guy every weekend and i've been one of them, they are fine for FB's (Not all of em, but enough). Added risk of diseases though, scary thought lol. anyway thats another example
The fact is, you've got to change the rules for your town, your school..ect.. Tune what you do, to what the girls like. If your sitting there wondering how come all these guy i know have these girls (some different ones each time) but there breaking this DJ short conversation rule. They must be doing something right!, don't be different this time, be like them. Your the one without a girl having no conversations when they are?? Be different but do what the other guys do to get the girl just like we do in this community.
Sorry for wall of txt, hope i helped.
Good luck
