Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
This. I dont like that crap played on me and I’m not going to do it to anyone else. Unlike many guys on here who claim it’s ok, I’m too old for women friends or platonic friends or anything like that. I meet way too many women to bother hanging out platonically with one when I could be out with someone who wants more. There’s plenty of girls that’ll go get drinks or to a ballgame with me and do friend type stuff but also have sex with me.
@Robert28 -- You are I are close to the same age.
I had a woman friend couple years ago that almost destroyed my self esteem. Worst Friendzone situation ever and I wished I’d left it sooner. She’s the reason I’ll never have women friends ever again. I don’t like being used anyways, and that’s all women friends do.
I finally learned my lesson (the very hard way) after a roughly three year FZ. I was just a “fill in guy” or “half boyfriend” to take her for dinner and dancing while she was single and bored. Now she has a bf and has largely ghosted me.
I agree completely. I think to even ask such a question is already overthinking the whole thing which is a no no. It never has or will be that serious. Just talk to her normally, convey your strengths and that which makes you unique (sell yourself basically). I think a lot of these mental manipulation tactics end up hurting guys in the long run. Her hand will always be stronger because that's the realm she operates in whereas we are about action. Yes, I am saying you want to give off the impression you are a go-getter. If not, start.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
"I cant have any female friends because all of them want to have sex with me. Life is so hard"
Yeah it has its downsides. That's actually my entire approach now. Going out trying to make friends. I'm 39 and haven't had a proper female friend since high school. It's actually a problem too cause when I tell girls that they basically see it as a huge dhv but like.. how else am i supposed to make friends? A big mistake I was making until just recently was pointing them towards the female game and mental self improvement. I'm trying not to mention the female game anymore cause it makes my friends play hard to get with me which makes contact way harder. It just seems like I should help them cause their my friends...
