loving
Senior Don Juan
does it lead one astray from the goal of *****?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
is it good to jack off?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KontrollerX
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Yep.
It reduces the risk of prostate cancer, reduces stress levels and keeps you in check when around women.
It reduces the risk of prostate cancer, reduces stress levels and keeps you in check when around women.
It's fine to do it a few times a week, and is beneficial to your mood, releases certain endorphins and like the person above said, reduces risk of prostate cancer.loving said:
Doing it too often will have negative effects though, it will leave you feeling lazy and you'll feel a huge lack in motivation, your mood will actually become worse and you'll find it hard to concentrate.
I know this because I've done many little I guess you could call social experiments on myself. Last year I masturbated ridiculously often for a few months, then did not masturbate for 40 odd days straight and noted the changes I felt in my body.
Obviously there will be some differences as we may not be the same, but still, it's a generalization.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
guywhoneedshelp
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I don't do it. It makes you lazy. Being horny is a motivator. Also, when I have f buddies, I get lazy. I sarge less. Sure, I'm more productive at work, walking in with that "I just had wild sex last night" look on my face, shaking everyones hand, etc, which in turn attracts girls, but don't get too comfortable in a masturbation routine.
meaning, don't fall into the "I'm not gonna go out tonight I'm just gonna watch this new porn I downloaded and jack off" routine
meaning, don't fall into the "I'm not gonna go out tonight I'm just gonna watch this new porn I downloaded and jack off" routine
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
I think that excessive masturbation is problematic based on personal experience. Because you may only condition yourself to get turned on through artificial means, and then when the actual event when you're with a girl feels unnatural. Therefore I believe it should be moderated i.e. don't jack off when you're bored, just do it when you're extremely horny.
guywhoneedshelp
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Because banging the same thing gets old once you've done it a dozen times or so. Gotta have like 3 or 4 at a time not just 1 or 2.Huffman said:Why would you want to go sarging all day when you're already getting all the ass you want?
ima str8 up pimp
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try and stray away from masturbation... especially porn it is unnatural.
because it's just you and you it's much more different than ****ing a girl, and if you're sexually exhausted with yourself then you're not even gonna wanna get that good sex with a ho.
because it's just you and you it's much more different than ****ing a girl, and if you're sexually exhausted with yourself then you're not even gonna wanna get that good sex with a ho.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.