loving
Senior Don Juan
does it lead one astray from the goal of *****?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
is it good to jack off?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KontrollerX
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Yep.
It reduces the risk of prostate cancer, reduces stress levels and keeps you in check when around women.
It reduces the risk of prostate cancer, reduces stress levels and keeps you in check when around women.
It's fine to do it a few times a week, and is beneficial to your mood, releases certain endorphins and like the person above said, reduces risk of prostate cancer.loving said:
Doing it too often will have negative effects though, it will leave you feeling lazy and you'll feel a huge lack in motivation, your mood will actually become worse and you'll find it hard to concentrate.
I know this because I've done many little I guess you could call social experiments on myself. Last year I masturbated ridiculously often for a few months, then did not masturbate for 40 odd days straight and noted the changes I felt in my body.
Obviously there will be some differences as we may not be the same, but still, it's a generalization.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
guywhoneedshelp
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I don't do it. It makes you lazy. Being horny is a motivator. Also, when I have f buddies, I get lazy. I sarge less. Sure, I'm more productive at work, walking in with that "I just had wild sex last night" look on my face, shaking everyones hand, etc, which in turn attracts girls, but don't get too comfortable in a masturbation routine.
meaning, don't fall into the "I'm not gonna go out tonight I'm just gonna watch this new porn I downloaded and jack off" routine
meaning, don't fall into the "I'm not gonna go out tonight I'm just gonna watch this new porn I downloaded and jack off" routine
SickAgain
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I think that excessive masturbation is problematic based on personal experience. Because you may only condition yourself to get turned on through artificial means, and then when the actual event when you're with a girl feels unnatural. Therefore I believe it should be moderated i.e. don't jack off when you're bored, just do it when you're extremely horny.
guywhoneedshelp
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Because banging the same thing gets old once you've done it a dozen times or so. Gotta have like 3 or 4 at a time not just 1 or 2.Huffman said:Why would you want to go sarging all day when you're already getting all the ass you want?
ima str8 up pimp
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try and stray away from masturbation... especially porn it is unnatural.
because it's just you and you it's much more different than ****ing a girl, and if you're sexually exhausted with yourself then you're not even gonna wanna get that good sex with a ho.
because it's just you and you it's much more different than ****ing a girl, and if you're sexually exhausted with yourself then you're not even gonna wanna get that good sex with a ho.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.