avrilishot
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well is it? and also do girls like it or not.
thanks.
thanks.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
is it good to flirt?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Brian20o2
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Yes, my guess by this is you don't know much, just guessin. usally girls love to flirt and sometimes they mess with ya. but its necessary to flirt to become a DJ
avrilishot
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true I dont know ****. thanks for the advice.
So pimp its scary
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That's an odd question.
It depends on what you consider to be flirting, if you mean just holding a polite conversation with just about anyone... that is a powerful type of flirting.
Just the other night I met this natural 'DJ'. He walked into the bar like everyone was already his friend, he saw my friend who most would probably rate 8-9 out of 10, and he wanted to hit on her. He came up to us and just started a regular conversation, then there was this table of asian girls sitting behind us, 'you want me to get you with that girl.' He pointed to this girl on the dancefloor that I wouldn't have wanted to maintain. 'Well, have you ever had asian before, I haven't myself.' No, so he turned back to the asians again and starts telling them my name, and this and that and everything. I knew from the start that he wanted to flirt with my friend, and I saw that he knew the score as well so I wasn't about to stop the guy (I am disinterested in the girl, I know her too well.)
But, I always tease cashiers, just chat up absolutely anybody if I sense that its worth asking for the numbers I keep in touch with just about anybody if they seem straight up. Once they start acting shadey, I just stop calling... simple. Most girls love it. Some are simply unnapproachable... keep in mind that the less of an 'agenda' that you have the more likeable you become.
It depends on what you consider to be flirting, if you mean just holding a polite conversation with just about anyone... that is a powerful type of flirting.
Just the other night I met this natural 'DJ'. He walked into the bar like everyone was already his friend, he saw my friend who most would probably rate 8-9 out of 10, and he wanted to hit on her. He came up to us and just started a regular conversation, then there was this table of asian girls sitting behind us, 'you want me to get you with that girl.' He pointed to this girl on the dancefloor that I wouldn't have wanted to maintain. 'Well, have you ever had asian before, I haven't myself.' No, so he turned back to the asians again and starts telling them my name, and this and that and everything. I knew from the start that he wanted to flirt with my friend, and I saw that he knew the score as well so I wasn't about to stop the guy (I am disinterested in the girl, I know her too well.)
But, I always tease cashiers, just chat up absolutely anybody if I sense that its worth asking for the numbers I keep in touch with just about anybody if they seem straight up. Once they start acting shadey, I just stop calling... simple. Most girls love it. Some are simply unnapproachable... keep in mind that the less of an 'agenda' that you have the more likeable you become.
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i flirt and tease girls all the time, flirtings fun especially when your like me and bored as **** in class 
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.