avrilishot
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well is it? and also do girls like it or not.
thanks.
thanks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
is it good to flirt?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Yes, my guess by this is you don't know much, just guessin. usally girls love to flirt and sometimes they mess with ya. but its necessary to flirt to become a DJ
avrilishot
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true I dont know ****. thanks for the advice.
So pimp its scary
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That's an odd question.
It depends on what you consider to be flirting, if you mean just holding a polite conversation with just about anyone... that is a powerful type of flirting.
Just the other night I met this natural 'DJ'. He walked into the bar like everyone was already his friend, he saw my friend who most would probably rate 8-9 out of 10, and he wanted to hit on her. He came up to us and just started a regular conversation, then there was this table of asian girls sitting behind us, 'you want me to get you with that girl.' He pointed to this girl on the dancefloor that I wouldn't have wanted to maintain. 'Well, have you ever had asian before, I haven't myself.' No, so he turned back to the asians again and starts telling them my name, and this and that and everything. I knew from the start that he wanted to flirt with my friend, and I saw that he knew the score as well so I wasn't about to stop the guy (I am disinterested in the girl, I know her too well.)
But, I always tease cashiers, just chat up absolutely anybody if I sense that its worth asking for the numbers I keep in touch with just about anybody if they seem straight up. Once they start acting shadey, I just stop calling... simple. Most girls love it. Some are simply unnapproachable... keep in mind that the less of an 'agenda' that you have the more likeable you become.
It depends on what you consider to be flirting, if you mean just holding a polite conversation with just about anyone... that is a powerful type of flirting.
Just the other night I met this natural 'DJ'. He walked into the bar like everyone was already his friend, he saw my friend who most would probably rate 8-9 out of 10, and he wanted to hit on her. He came up to us and just started a regular conversation, then there was this table of asian girls sitting behind us, 'you want me to get you with that girl.' He pointed to this girl on the dancefloor that I wouldn't have wanted to maintain. 'Well, have you ever had asian before, I haven't myself.' No, so he turned back to the asians again and starts telling them my name, and this and that and everything. I knew from the start that he wanted to flirt with my friend, and I saw that he knew the score as well so I wasn't about to stop the guy (I am disinterested in the girl, I know her too well.)
But, I always tease cashiers, just chat up absolutely anybody if I sense that its worth asking for the numbers I keep in touch with just about anybody if they seem straight up. Once they start acting shadey, I just stop calling... simple. Most girls love it. Some are simply unnapproachable... keep in mind that the less of an 'agenda' that you have the more likeable you become.
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i flirt and tease girls all the time, flirtings fun especially when your like me and bored as **** in class 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.