is it good to chat with girl on social media?

[Goosberry]

Any thought?

 

[Dan Bautista]

Very few times does chatting with girls over on social media escalate to anything more than so. If you're looking to get laid or for a relationship, going out is the best way. If it's just to goof around, why not? No harm in that.

 

[nismo-4]

Get them off of Social Media quickly. Otherwise, you're just gonna be an e-orbiter or iFriend.

 

[RangerMIke]

Make a date, you have to sell in person. If she won't meet you she isn't interested and you need to move on.

 

[Glassguy]

Social media is a BIG opportunity to pick up chicks, either pump and dumps or a relationship of some kind.

1.) You already know things about them from their profiles/pics.

2.) You already have mutual friends

3.) Drop a line out there, see if she bites. If she doesnt move on, if she does a little chat or banter back and forth to build some rapport and go for the date. Dont waste much time.

I am meeting up with a solid chick tonight that added me on FB. I waited a couple of days before I messaged her.

Me: Do I know you?
Her: I dont think so, but we have lots of mutual friends.
Me: Ok....cool. Just dont be creeping on my fb page
Her: Too late!
Me: How do you know so and so....you know what, lets save the chit chat for drinks. I am free Tuesday and Thursday next week around 8. What days are you free?
Her: Lets do 8pm Tuesday.
Me: Perfect....see you then.

She has messaged me just a few times since (this was last Friday) so I am getting good vibes from her. I will still send her a message before I head out this evening "hey running just a few minutes late....can you grab a table for us when you get there?"

Take advantage of all the tools you have to find single, available, interested women. Just dont be creepy/insecure/weird and some of them will pan out.