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Hi guys, first time posting, Ok well I will get to the point.
In high school my friend (she is female) has a boyfriend. And what he does is hug people a lot, yes even guyz. He comes up to me a few times and tries to hug me, I obviously decline the nice offer, but lately as a joke i hug him...
Does this make me gay, cuz I really dont wanna be:rolleyes:
Thanx a lot.
 

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Yes, you are a flaming flamboyant homosexual :rolleyes:

Seriously, how do you feel about it? Do you wanna do him? I kissed a guy (albeit on a cheek), but am a zealous heterosexual. Just shows that you are comfortable with your sexuality (sorry. The phrase is very overused, I know, but it fits here :D)

Welcome, btw :)
 
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Ok......
Well I know that I am not gay, just having a little fun, but I wanna know if other people would find it sort of offensive and gay and not like me becuase of that. And I hope as a joke her my friend is ok with it.
I just wanna clear up I am not gay, that is something I know for sure.
 
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i wouldnt call it gay just weird. i mean if hes with your friend he isnt gay. and it depends in the context, mean if he is a little wankster kid ( i cant beleive i accually typed wankster) and its one of those lame ghetto hugs or he thinks its funny to see homophobic peoples reactions then its not really weird more sad or funny.
 
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well the guy kinda jumps on me when hugging, he does sound gay and acts gay alot, but I am not sure if he really is gay. But I know that I am not gay, and i just like a quick joke.
 

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ok mabey he is gay, what kind of relationship does him and your friend have the "we are best friends but together relationship ( no touchy)" or the typical Hs relationship ( lots of touchy)




Saying touchy makes me smile in real life :D
 
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