"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it gay?

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TheLegace

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Hi guys, first time posting, Ok well I will get to the point.
In high school my friend (she is female) has a boyfriend. And what he does is hug people a lot, yes even guyz. He comes up to me a few times and tries to hug me, I obviously decline the nice offer, but lately as a joke i hug him...
Does this make me gay, cuz I really dont wanna be:rolleyes:
Thanx a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, you are a flaming flamboyant homosexual :rolleyes:

Seriously, how do you feel about it? Do you wanna do him? I kissed a guy (albeit on a cheek), but am a zealous heterosexual. Just shows that you are comfortable with your sexuality (sorry. The phrase is very overused, I know, but it fits here :D)

Welcome, btw :)
 

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Ok......
Well I know that I am not gay, just having a little fun, but I wanna know if other people would find it sort of offensive and gay and not like me becuase of that. And I hope as a joke her my friend is ok with it.
I just wanna clear up I am not gay, that is something I know for sure.
 

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i wouldnt call it gay just weird. i mean if hes with your friend he isnt gay. and it depends in the context, mean if he is a little wankster kid ( i cant beleive i accually typed wankster) and its one of those lame ghetto hugs or he thinks its funny to see homophobic peoples reactions then its not really weird more sad or funny.
 

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well the guy kinda jumps on me when hugging, he does sound gay and acts gay alot, but I am not sure if he really is gay. But I know that I am not gay, and i just like a quick joke.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok mabey he is gay, what kind of relationship does him and your friend have the "we are best friends but together relationship ( no touchy)" or the typical Hs relationship ( lots of touchy)




Saying touchy makes me smile in real life :D
 
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