MatureDJ
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is it fair that American men wear baggy swimsuits while women wear microkinis?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bokanovsky
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Why do you always post articles from feminist rags like Slate and The Atlantic? Just curious.
Wolfgang D
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Okay MatureDJ, I'll explain this to you. Men wear baggy swimming trunks because if we wear briefs our genitals are showing like a lump. People are instinctively disgusted by seeing genitals in public as genitals and anal orifices are a source of unsanitary body fluids. We can handle the sight in small doses when it comes to our partners, but not when it comes to a mass of strangers. And even with our partners we cover up except in bed.
At the same time the sight of genitals brings the thoughts to sex, and we don't want sex to be ever-present. It leads to competition and jealousy and conflict.
I guess you want to imply that the "patriarchy" as you call it makes women wear tighter bikini bottoms as a way to "oppress" women. Funny how both hiding women in long robes like in the Middle East, or "forcing" them to wear bikinis - the opposite - are examples of "oppression" to you feminists. It doesn't work when the audience knows real psychology though.
You also left out the fact that men's chests are bare at the beach. If less cloth at the beach is a sign of oppression, shouldn't men wear t-shirts or even long shirts, while women are made to go naked? But since that doesn't fit your feminist "oppression" theory, you conveniently leave it out.
At the same time the sight of genitals brings the thoughts to sex, and we don't want sex to be ever-present. It leads to competition and jealousy and conflict.
I guess you want to imply that the "patriarchy" as you call it makes women wear tighter bikini bottoms as a way to "oppress" women. Funny how both hiding women in long robes like in the Middle East, or "forcing" them to wear bikinis - the opposite - are examples of "oppression" to you feminists. It doesn't work when the audience knows real psychology though.
You also left out the fact that men's chests are bare at the beach. If less cloth at the beach is a sign of oppression, shouldn't men wear t-shirts or even long shirts, while women are made to go naked? But since that doesn't fit your feminist "oppression" theory, you conveniently leave it out.
Mike32ct
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This is an article about a gay guy checking out men's junk.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.