MatureDJ
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is it fair that American men wear baggy swimsuits while women wear microkinis?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Why do you always post articles from feminist rags like Slate and The Atlantic? Just curious.
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Okay MatureDJ, I'll explain this to you. Men wear baggy swimming trunks because if we wear briefs our genitals are showing like a lump. People are instinctively disgusted by seeing genitals in public as genitals and anal orifices are a source of unsanitary body fluids. We can handle the sight in small doses when it comes to our partners, but not when it comes to a mass of strangers. And even with our partners we cover up except in bed.
At the same time the sight of genitals brings the thoughts to sex, and we don't want sex to be ever-present. It leads to competition and jealousy and conflict.
I guess you want to imply that the "patriarchy" as you call it makes women wear tighter bikini bottoms as a way to "oppress" women. Funny how both hiding women in long robes like in the Middle East, or "forcing" them to wear bikinis - the opposite - are examples of "oppression" to you feminists. It doesn't work when the audience knows real psychology though.
You also left out the fact that men's chests are bare at the beach. If less cloth at the beach is a sign of oppression, shouldn't men wear t-shirts or even long shirts, while women are made to go naked? But since that doesn't fit your feminist "oppression" theory, you conveniently leave it out.
At the same time the sight of genitals brings the thoughts to sex, and we don't want sex to be ever-present. It leads to competition and jealousy and conflict.
I guess you want to imply that the "patriarchy" as you call it makes women wear tighter bikini bottoms as a way to "oppress" women. Funny how both hiding women in long robes like in the Middle East, or "forcing" them to wear bikinis - the opposite - are examples of "oppression" to you feminists. It doesn't work when the audience knows real psychology though.
You also left out the fact that men's chests are bare at the beach. If less cloth at the beach is a sign of oppression, shouldn't men wear t-shirts or even long shirts, while women are made to go naked? But since that doesn't fit your feminist "oppression" theory, you conveniently leave it out.
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This is an article about a gay guy checking out men's junk.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.