MatureDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is it fair that American men wear baggy swimsuits while women wear microkinis?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bokanovsky
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Why do you always post articles from feminist rags like Slate and The Atlantic? Just curious.
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Okay MatureDJ, I'll explain this to you. Men wear baggy swimming trunks because if we wear briefs our genitals are showing like a lump. People are instinctively disgusted by seeing genitals in public as genitals and anal orifices are a source of unsanitary body fluids. We can handle the sight in small doses when it comes to our partners, but not when it comes to a mass of strangers. And even with our partners we cover up except in bed.
At the same time the sight of genitals brings the thoughts to sex, and we don't want sex to be ever-present. It leads to competition and jealousy and conflict.
I guess you want to imply that the "patriarchy" as you call it makes women wear tighter bikini bottoms as a way to "oppress" women. Funny how both hiding women in long robes like in the Middle East, or "forcing" them to wear bikinis - the opposite - are examples of "oppression" to you feminists. It doesn't work when the audience knows real psychology though.
You also left out the fact that men's chests are bare at the beach. If less cloth at the beach is a sign of oppression, shouldn't men wear t-shirts or even long shirts, while women are made to go naked? But since that doesn't fit your feminist "oppression" theory, you conveniently leave it out.
At the same time the sight of genitals brings the thoughts to sex, and we don't want sex to be ever-present. It leads to competition and jealousy and conflict.
I guess you want to imply that the "patriarchy" as you call it makes women wear tighter bikini bottoms as a way to "oppress" women. Funny how both hiding women in long robes like in the Middle East, or "forcing" them to wear bikinis - the opposite - are examples of "oppression" to you feminists. It doesn't work when the audience knows real psychology though.
You also left out the fact that men's chests are bare at the beach. If less cloth at the beach is a sign of oppression, shouldn't men wear t-shirts or even long shirts, while women are made to go naked? But since that doesn't fit your feminist "oppression" theory, you conveniently leave it out.
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This is an article about a gay guy checking out men's junk.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.